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Ricky Lee Grove's avatar

Lovely essay, Matt. I disagree a bit because I just like having books around me. Good for my mental health, but I take your points. I have a roommate who fills his bookshelves he is never going to read. I call them "Show books" because they are there to impress someone looking through their books. All of my books are there for a reason and I do intend to read them except for books I've purchased to resell. That's my two cents.

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Diane's avatar

I must say after having started moving your mum's books to somewhere they'd be appreciated I have been regularly getting rid of books; some via World of Books and some via a charity table in our supermarket. And like you I keep only those I will read or those that have memories. It is why I love the library because I can read and then give back. Also I am finding that, even though we are in a big house and could have loads of stuff I am culling slowly.

And the story about Abi and the art book reminded me of my kids - aged about 7 and 10 going round the impressionists part of the Muse d'Orsay, Paris, saying "we've got that one on our fridge" "and that one" "but not that one" and then giving the found one a good look, all because your mum had given us a calendar of Impressionist paintings which we'd cut out and put on the fridge. They also would go round the Tate Modern not being shy about asking things like "why is that there?" when they didn't think it was that great.

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